Serving in Secret: Love, Country, and Don't Ask, Don't Tell

2023

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Tracing the U.S. military's long history of discrimination against the gay community and one couple's personal journey for acceptance.

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6 featured cast members

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Rachel Maddow

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Nancy Pelosi

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Pete Buttigieg

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Jeh Johnson

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Tom Carpenter

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Eric Fanning

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Directed by: Jonathan Baker
Produced by: Leah Konings

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