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Love and Pain and the Whole Damn Thing

Love and Pain and the Whole Damn Thing

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Love and Pain and the Whole Damn Thing

1973

1h 50m

6.1(10 votes)

Drama

Romance

Comedy

Overview

While bicycling through the Spanish countryside, Walter, the aimless young son of a doctor, makes the acquaintance of proper, middle-aged, clumsy and secretive Lila. He falls in love with her, but she is resistant.

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Columbia Pictures

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Cast & crew

10 featured cast members

Starring

Maggie Smith

Maggie Smith

Lila Fisher

Timothy Bottoms

Timothy Bottoms

Walter Elbertson

Jaime de Mora y Aragón

Jaime de Mora y Aragón

The Duke

Emiliano Redondo

Emiliano Redondo

The Spanish Gentleman

Charles Baxter

Dr. Elbertson

Margaret Modlin

Mrs. Elbertson

May Heatherly

May Heatherly

Melanie Elbertson

Lloyd Brimhall

Carl

Elmer Modlin

Elmer Modlin

Dr. Edelheidt

Andrés Monreal

Tourist Guide

Creative team

Directed by: Alan J. Pakula
Written by: Alvin Sargent
Produced by: Alan J. Pakula

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